Women, Sex and “The Reputation”
Once upon a time there was a player and a slut…Now ask yourself why you related the word player to a man and the word slut to a woman. Somewhere along the way, women’s sexual desires were down played, as if we have a considerably lower sex drive then men and that it isn’t “normal” for a woman to be promiscuous. This isn’t a fact. This is an idea created by man about how things “should be.” People place so much emotional weight on morals, when morals were made by man. A THOUGHT by man, about how things “should” be. The mind as well as being man‘s greatest gift, at times, can be man’s worst nightmare and biggest killer.
Lets take a look at hunger. When you are hungry, your body will tell you. You may feel weak or your tummy may grumble. But say after eating a full course meal, you take a look at the dessert menu and you see a double chocolate mouse cake toped with whip cream and a cherry. Although you are not hungry, your mind tells you how delicious it looks. You order it, once consumed the bill comes and you feel full , uncomfortable and now you’re contemplating if that cake was worth the 9 dollars and a guilty feeling about missing the gym. Your body knows what’s good for it.
Now let’s take a look at sex . The creation of man and humanity but over the years it has been considered “pornography.” Now tell me why when our body tells us we are horny, we should fight it. If you were hungry and food was readily available, would you fight that? Take a look at the definition of pornography: sexually explicit material: films, magazines, writings, photographs, or other materials that are sexually explicit and intended to cause sexual arousal . I see nothing wrong with that, but stand in the middle of a grocery store and scream the word, “PORNOGRAPHY.” See the looks you get? Why should sex be considered so taboo and shushed?
Sex is the most natural thing us humans do. We publicly pollute the air with our cars and advertise plastic surgery on billboards, but you “shouldn’t” tell your boss how great you feel today because of the amazing one-night stand you had with your neighbor even though his brother was better….Sex? It’s a gift.
A moral is: derived from PERSONAL conscience: based on what somebody’s conscience suggests is right or wrong, rather than on what rules or the law says should be done. Ultimately people are going to believe whatever they CHOOSE to believe. However society places negative judgment on the morals of porn stars, promiscuous women/men, prostitutes even Charlie Sheen, despite the fact that ultimately sex is key to survival.
What society has done is create an idea that promiscuous women are bad. So women may feel they have to lie about their sex lives and/or hold back. Well ladies, I got good news. You don’t HAVE to hide it and you definitely DON‘T have to hold back. After all deep down innately we all know ladies enjoy being poked just as much as men enjoy to poke. In other words get to fuckin!