Fate doesn’t control you, You control Fate.
There are two parts to fate. One being the people, places and situations you happen to run in to, and the other being the choices you make because of those people, around those places, and in those situations. Fate is the consequences of your choices and in turn can change at any moment upon any given choice. It’s because of this idea that “Never give up” has been spoken by so many wise men over and over again in history. We are all born ignorant. We have to be educated on health, laws and consequences of actions. It has been my experience that some bad choices have led to greater opportunities but only when the lesson has been learned and overcome because it is then that experience is obtained.
The way the human mind works leaves everything open for options, therefore being very dangerous for this thing we call love…the mind really never stops looking. The mind is endless and cannot retain enough knowledge to come to a complete end. Some say without the bad there would be no good…others say to gain everything you must lose everything…I say without idiocy there would be no logic.
Say you are running toward a cliff to jump off and at the last minute you change your mind , it still may be too late. Your sudden change of thought may be too weak to stop the force and speed in which you were running. Love is fast and constantly moving. Just like the force you create by running. The heart, just like the body can be injured by any sudden halt. For me, when love comes to a halt the situation is out of my control…out of my hands… I can not fix it and I will fight the urge to fight. I will fight, to not fight, to control every situation that confronts me that is out of my control. There is only one thing you can trust in this world and that is that “god” will take care of you as long as you do right.